If you choose to implement the techniques and the theories that are mentioned in this book then you just may be able to accomplish making someone fall in love with you in less than 90 minutes!
Sure, there are practices that aren’t backed up by scientific evidence, but I have tried them and they have worked for me, they just may work for you too.
Sure some views in this book are common sense, but they’re views that we may consciously forget about. Definitely good to read this book and to once again be aware of these views that promote effective relationships.
Factors for falling in love:
The right person
Specific body language
Mutual self disclosure
Discovering the other person liked them
It’s about emotional progression, not length of time. His research found:
1. Falling in love and staying in love are completely separate events.
2. We don’t fall in love with other people. We fall in love with the feelings we get when we’re with them.
3. Certain people balance us and make us feel complete socially and psychologically while others make us feel insecure, tired, and zap our self confidence or turn us into something we’re not. When you meet the person who balances and completes you, you have found your “matched opposite.”